Wine and the Art of Conquering Fear

Morning chaps :O) I have a question for you. Have you ever been in a situation where you had no idea what the outcome would be but you put the brakes on because the thing that stood between you and your final destination scared the bejeezus out of you? What was at the end of the road could have been amazing or terrible but you never got to find out because you just couldn’t get past your fear?

If the answer is yes then can I just take a few minutes of your time to tell you what happened to me last night? My best friend and I had popped over to Nice for a great dinner of savoury crepes with guacamole (yum!) and, as is the norm in summer we’d taken his motorbike (I love speed and am always a willing passenger despite the havoc that a crash helmet plays with your hair when it’s 26 degrees C) . As is my wont I had a couple of glasses of red wine with dinner.

I was expecting to go straight home but we headed off into the mountains and stopped at the edge of a narrow path. Now, I should tell you at this point that common sense is very much the order of the day around here so most of the smaller mountain roads don’t have barriers; the idea is that, if you are sensible, you’ll look where you’re going and won’t fall off!

This is a bit of an issue for me because I do like to have something between me and the edge of a cliff, I’m funny like that! So, there we were, umpty ump hundreds of feet up a mountain, on a little path with no barriers, in the dark with just the light of a phone to guide our steps.

At this point I was on the point of bottling out as I really, really don’t like heights and I knew that a few people would be pretty pissed off if I plunged to my death. However, I had been previously fortified by just enough alcohol to overcome my fears but not so much that I couldn’t safely put one foot in front of the other.

IMG_5705I carried on, stumbling occasionally and wondering what on earth we were doing up here in the middle of the night but then we reached a small platform at the end of the long, windy and slightly treacherous path. Oh My GOD!!!! The View!!! I just cannot tell you how unbelievably beautiful it was (the photos do not do it justice). I literally just gazed with my mouth open and my eyes like saucers.

To top it off, as we stood there, a huge firework display started in the middle of Monaco (some sporting event or another was going on) and we had a birds eye view! It lasted for about 15 minutes and was absolutely spectacular. What an amazing experience!

The moral of this story is that, if I hadn’t overcome my fear of heights, I would have missed all of it. I didn’t know what was at the end of the path and it would have been so easy to just give in to my terror and turn back; I would never have known what I was missing but, oh boy, what I would have missed!

I can’t say that, from now on, I’ll be grabbing each adventure that comes my way without fear or worry but I do know that I won’t be letting fear stop me from having those adventures. Maybe I’ll even get to the point where I’ll be having them without the aid of a glass of vino, who knows ;O)

Please let me know if you’ve ever missed out because of your fears or even just if you like wine (at least we know we’ll have something in common), I’d really love to hear from you

Lisa x



  18 comments for “Wine and the Art of Conquering Fear

  1. July 21, 2018 at 8:28 am

    Excellent. Sometimes our fears protect us and sometimes they inhibit us. I suppose the lesson here is to try to understand ourselves.


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    • July 21, 2018 at 9:49 am

      I can only speak from experience here but I don’t think my (irrational) fears have ever protected me, all they’ve done is make me miss out on the really exciting things that life has to offer :O)

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      • July 21, 2018 at 10:26 am

        Sometimes fears tell us not to go too close to a lion’s mouth.
        Did you get my novel?

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      • July 21, 2018 at 10:28 am

        True but that’s a pretty rational fear ;O)
        Nope sorry nothing yet

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      • July 21, 2018 at 10:32 am

        It is not sending. The characters are as defined now as they will be towards the conclusion. Just a little redemption and forgiveness.

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      • July 21, 2018 at 10:50 am

        Damn! Ok, it’s just that it’s easier with a single document rather than reading in installments. How quickly do you need this Mike?


      • July 21, 2018 at 10:51 am

        No rush at all. We are away for three weeks.

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      • July 21, 2018 at 11:02 am

        Okey dokey. Leave it with me and I’ll put something together for when you get back 😊 enjoy your hols x

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      • July 21, 2018 at 11:03 am

        What a wonderful person.

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      • July 21, 2018 at 12:06 pm

        Aw shucks 😊

        Liked by 1 person

  2. Perimenopausal Ponderings
    July 21, 2018 at 8:36 am

    Good for you! And what a view. Well we both love red wine as we know 🙂 I miss out on so much because I don`t like to push my boundaries and like my feet firmly on the ground. I wish I had more nerve but I really don`t. We have a “Sky Dive the Beach ” ten minutes from me here in NSW. I love watching them come down but shudder when I see them heading to the airport in the bus !!It all changed for me when I had kids..not sure why ?

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    • July 21, 2018 at 9:50 am

      Oh yes :O) Maybe it’s because you have a stronger sense of self preservation after you have kids? You need to make sure that you stay around to protect them? xx

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      • Perimenopausal Ponderings
        July 22, 2018 at 5:06 am

        Definitely a link somewhere !!

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  3. July 21, 2018 at 10:27 pm

    I am a red wine drinker😄

    My fear of driving and of people has been the thing that has stopped me doing a lot and travelling. But this is changing rapidly.

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    • July 22, 2018 at 5:39 am

      Yay 😁 another red wine fan!
      I’m so happy to hear that Darren; the world is such a beautiful place xxxx


  4. July 22, 2018 at 12:22 am

    I LOVE your blog…… really makes me think.

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